I Am Different Compared to the Rest of My Family, Now What?

Everyone is unique and yet everyone also has certain family traits. Only, it may be that your unique characteristics or your view of the world is so different from the rest of the family that you feel you are completely different compared to your family and do not fit in or belong. 

Why Was I Born into this Family?

When you feel that you are different than the rest of the family, you wonder what you are doing around these people. It is good to realize that your parents, brothers and sisters are related to you for a reason.  

Your higher consciousness selects the family that best fits your life plan, the karma you want to resolve and the life lessons you want to learn. After all, your family is one of the most formative environments in your life.

The Relationship with My Family Changed over the Past Years, What Causes That?

In recent years, many existing relationships have changed. Either you are more in tune with each other, or you no longer understand each other at all. This is due to the layers of consciousness that have arisen under the influence of the transition of energy. On Earth, people live with different levels of consciousness.

Layers of consciousness help you better understand the other person's level of consciousness and make it easier to meet like-minded people. People who are in the same layer of consciousness on a particular area; the area where you both want to learn a life lesson.

But it also becomes clearer if you don't have the same level of consciousness. Because of this, existing relationships change. For example, partners who grow apart, parents and children who have a completely different view of the world, or that you feel you no longer fit in with the family. 

I Don't Feel Part of My Family (anymore), How to Move On?

When you don't belong, your automatic reaction is to adapt to fit in. To get the recognition and love you crave; to be seen. Realize, however, that by doing so you are selling yourself short, which eventually takes its toll. And that the chance of being seen for who you really are, is almost nil. More about this in the blog Being Completely Yourself and Why It Costs Energy When You Don't

Fortunately, there are plenty of other things you can do that will actually help you empower yourself. 

Accept Who You Are and Accept How Your Family Is

Acceptance is the first step toward change. The moment you actually accept that there are differences between you and your family, you can start processing the impact this has on your life. 

You can feel incredibly sad and lonely when the relationship with your family is not pleasant (any longer). Or when the mutual differences are too big, causing you to stop seeing each other (temporarily). In this case you are in an invisible grieving process. The meditation-healing Self-love supports you in this process. 

Reduce the Impact of Your Family on Your Life

Besides growing up within the family: 

  • there are many karmic connections within the family
  • energy is passed from generation to generation through family lines
  • there are roles and patterns within a family

Because of this, family relationships remain for life, even if you end the physical relationship. The energetic connections, mutual energies, and projections continue to exist, exerting an impact on you. Just until you tackle it. 

This is what we do during the healing program Family. This program consists of 4 healings: Dissolving Family Karma, You within Your Family System, Energy in the Family Line (7 Generations), and a Individual Live Session Specifically Focused on Your Family. 

What is a Family System?

Although you are an individual, you are also part of family systems. Families in this life, such as the family you were born into and any in-laws. But also families from other lives. 

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"Be yourself, then it doesn't take energy to pretend to be different. People around you who don't accept you for who you are are not worth putting energy into.

Tricky story when the persons are your parents. Less so when it's family. And even less so when it's the society you surround yourself with.

The longest stretch of your life, you live under your own responsibility. Take that responsibility when your environment prevents you from being yourself."

Spiritual Books

Each of these books provides insight about the energetic relationships you have with your family:

  1. Je zijn: how energy works, including within the family
  2. Je wil: how (family) systems work and how metaphysical laws and forces operate on them
  3. Je last: the influence of karma on your life, including family karma
Your core, from your core you have access to everything you need: come into your power | Spiritual book | Astrid van Pluuren and Jarno Tiethoff

Book Je zijn

This book:

  • provides insight into all layers of your energy system, what influences it and how you can influence it. Both energetically and practically. 
  • contains exercises to get rid of energy that is not yours and to shield your energy field. 
  • is full of tips on how to raise your energy system to a higher frequency.

This book is currently being translated into English and Spanish. The expected release date is fall 2023. 

Je wil | Get what you want with the help of metaphysical laws and forces. Astrid van Pluuren and Jarno Tiethoff.

Book Je wil

This book: 

  • provides insight into the hierarchy and operation of 42 metaphysical laws and forces.
  • contains exercises so that you learn to consciously employ higher laws and thus change the energetic setting.
  • helps you balance your feminine and masculine power so that you can maximize your life force. 

This book is currently being translated into English and Spanish. The expected release date is fall 2023 (Spanish) and spring 2024 (English). 

Je last | From a hard lesson to a driving force: transform your karma.

Book Je last

This book:

  • provides insight into karma, its origins and how it is expressed

  • is full of examples of karma situations and elaborations to make it concrete

  • contains healing exercises with which you can reduce your karma and (partially) heal the resulting load

The vivid examples give you an insight into what a healing is and what emerges during healing.

This book has just been launched in Dutch. We will start translating it at the end of the year. Reserve your copy. Get in touch

Online Session, including Healing: Specifically Focused on Family (issues)

Forces of Resistance | Healing

If you have a belief in yourself that you don't want something or are resisting something, it comes right into your life. Often it becomes a resistance which creates blockages.

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Personal and Spiritual Development

What You Want | Workshop with Healing

During this workshop we will guide you to get to the essence of what you want and what it takes to achieve it. We will work energetically as well as analytically and practically with essential intentions, recalibrating your life to that and plotting your energetic campaign.

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"It is not a mystery, it is the miracle called life through which magical moments occur."