I Am Different Compared to the Rest of My Family, Now What?

Everyone is unique and yet everyone also has certain family traits. Only, it may be that your unique characteristics or your view of the world is so different from the rest of the family that you feel you are completely different compared to your family and do not fit in or belong. 

Why Was I Born into this Family?

When you feel that you are different than the rest of the family, you wonder what you are doing around these people. It is good to realize that your parents, brothers and sisters are related to you for a reason.  

Your higher consciousness selects the family that best fits your life plan, the karma you want to resolve and the life lessons you want to learn. After all, your family is one of the most formative environments in your life.

The Relationship with My Family Changed over the Past Years, What Causes That?

In recent years, many existing relationships have changed. Either you are more in tune with each other, or you no longer understand each other at all. This is due to the layers of consciousness that have arisen under the influence of the transition of energy. On Earth, people live with different levels of consciousness.

Layers of consciousness help you better understand the other person's level of consciousness and make it easier to meet like-minded people. People who are in the same layer of consciousness on a particular area; the area where you both want to learn a life lesson.

But it also becomes clearer if you don't have the same level of consciousness. Because of this, existing relationships change. For example, partners who grow apart, parents and children who have a completely different view of the world, or that you feel you no longer fit in with the family. 

I Don't Feel Part of My Family (anymore), How to Move On?

When you don't belong, your automatic reaction is to adapt to fit in. To get the recognition and love you crave; to be seen. Realize, however, that by doing so you are selling yourself short, which eventually takes its toll. And that the chance of being seen for who you really are, is almost nil. More about this in the blog Being Completely Yourself and Why It Costs Energy When You Don't

Fortunately, there are plenty of other things you can do that will actually help you empower yourself. 

Accept Who You Are and Accept How Your Family Is

Acceptance is the first step toward change. The moment you actually accept that there are differences between you and your family, you can start processing the impact this has on your life. 

You can feel incredibly sad and lonely when the relationship with your family is not pleasant (any longer). Or when the mutual differences are too big, causing you to stop seeing each other (temporarily). In this case you are in an invisible grieving process. The meditation healing Self-love supports you in this process. 

Reduce the Impact of Your Family on Your Life

Besides growing up within the family: 

  • there are many karmic connections within the family
  • energy is passed from generation to generation through family lines
  • there are roles and patterns within a family

Because of this, family relationships remain for life, even if you end the physical relationship. The energetic connections, mutual energies, and projections continue to exist, exerting an impact on you. Just until you tackle it. 

This is what we do during the healing program Family. This program consists of 4 healings: Dissolving Family Karma, You within Your Family System, Energy in the Family Line (7 Generations), and a Individual Live Session Specifically Focused on Your Family. 

What is a Family System?

Although you are an individual, you are also part of family systems. Families in this life, such as the family you were born into and any in-laws. But also families from other lives. 

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"Be yourself, then it doesn't take energy to pretend to be different. People around you who don't accept you for who you are are not worth putting energy into.

Tricky story when the persons are your parents. Less so when it's family. And even less so when it's the society you surround yourself with.

The longest stretch of your life, you live under your own responsibility. Take that responsibility when your environment prevents you from being yourself."

Spiritual Books

Each of these books provides insight about the energetic relationships you have with your family:

  1. Je zijn: how energy works, including within the family
  2. Je wil: how (family) systems work and how metaphysical laws and forces operate on them
  3. Je last: the influence of karma on your life, including family karma
Your Being, from Your Being you have access to everything you need: come into your power | Spiritual book | Astrid van Pluuren and Jarno Tiethoff

Book Your Being

This book:

  • provides insight into all layers of your energy system, what affects it and how you yourself can influence it. Energetically as well as practically. 
  • contains exercises to get rid of energy that doesn't belong to you, and to shield your energy field. 
  • is full of tips on how to lift your energy system to a higher frequency so that you will be in your power, energized, and better able to direct your life.
Your Beliefs | Do you truly believe that activating metaphysical laws will enrich your life? Astrid van Pluuren and Jarno Tiethoff.

Book Your Beliefs

This book: 

  • provides insight into the hierarchy and operation of 42 metaphysical laws and forces.
  • contains exercises so that you learn to consciously activate higher laws to change the energetic setting of your life.
  • helps you balance your feminine and masculine power so that you can maximize your life force. 
Your Karma | From a hard lesson to a driving force: transform Your Karma. Spiritual book by Astrid van Pluuren and Jarno Tiethoff

Book Your Karma

This book:

  • provides insight into karma, its origins and how it is expressed.
  • is full of examples of karmic situations for clarification.
  • contains healing exercises that enable you to reduce your karma and (partially) heal the resulting burden.

The vivid examples give you an insight into what a healing is and what emerges during healing.

Online Session, including Healing: Specifically Focused on Family (issues)

Forces of Resistance | Healing

If you have a belief in yourself that you don't want something or are resisting something, it comes right into your life. Often it becomes a resistance which creates blockages.

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