Family and relationships

Many relationships are different than they used to be. The energy in which relationships develop has changed. Because of this, you now feel more clearly whether it's right or not.

Where you could previously tolerate, ignore, or justify things, it's becoming increasingly difficult. This is because you don't just react to behavior, but to what is happening energetically.

What was once a given is no longer the case. You now have a better understanding of whether you are (still) on the same energetic level. This can mean that:

relationships deepen
relationships becoming more superficial or disappearing
you feel less connection with people who no longer fit with you

Relationships are energy exchange.

In every relationship, there's a constant exchange. Not just in words or behavior, but especially in energy. What you both carry, like life lessons and karmic connections, but also what you unconsciously take from each other or project onto each other.

Relationships aren't just about what someone does or says, but about the energy exchanges and dynamics you get into together. And this can go wrong, for example, when:

You keep giving even though it costs you energy.
you put your own needs aside for the other
you naturally assume a certain role with that person

What becomes visible in relationships shows how you are in your energy and what you carry with you. This includes energy frequency, life lessons, karmic connections, and energy from family.

What you carry with you from your family

In many cases, the foundation of how you approach relationships stems from your family. Not only in what you've learned, but in what is energetically passed down, such as:

energy in the family line passed down from generation to generation
patterns and roles that arise from the family system
family karma

This energy works through your system. Even if you consciously distance yourself from your family.

Why you keep falling into the same dynamics

This can cause you to fall into the same roles, patterns, or dynamics in relationships. For example, you might:

adapting yourself to stay connected
Holding yourself back to avoid rejection
assuming a certain role because it has always been expected of you

Or that you're reacting from a survival mechanism, like withdrawing into your shell during an argument or biting back excessively.

Sometimes it seems like it's the other person's fault, but you're in a relationship together and it's an interaction where something within you is also touched or activated.

Are things not going well in your relationship?

Then it's often not just about the relationship itself, but about what plays a role within you and through you. To truly change relationships, something within them must change. Change happens when you see what's going on and work on how you are in your energy and what you carry within it.

Do you want to break free from family energy?

Family karma, roles and dynamics from the family system, and energy in the family line. You carry it all with you. Not everything you carry from your family belongs to your life lessons.

Release the burden that perpetuates unnecessary struggle, misunderstandings, and emotional exhaustion from family ties, so that more peace may arise for you.

"Be yourself, then it doesn't take energy to pretend to be different. People around you who don't accept you for who you are are not worth putting energy into.

The longest stretch of your life, you live under your own responsibility. Take that responsibility when your environment prevents you from being yourself."