What Happens Energetically during a Family Constellation?

During a family constellation, the roles, patterns and beliefs within the family are identified, and the impact this has on your current life. This is done with a group of participants you do not know and who are not your family; representatives. Energetically this has quite some consequences. What this means is explained in this article. 

What About the Family System?

First of all, the family system. Usually, family constellation is based on family members. However, you are part of multiple family systems. Families in this life, such as the family you were born into and any in-laws. But also families from other lives. 

In addition, the impact of the family system comes primarily from the energy within the system rather than the physical actions and behaviors of family members. This is just an elaboration of that. Read more about the family system

How Representative are the Representatives?

During the family constellation, representatives take up a position in relation to each other and to you. The emotions and feelings that this evokes in them and in you are discussed in order to gain insight. For example, a representative of your little brother feels a suffocating tension which would indicate that you as a big sister have taken a too dominant role. 

However, the representatives themselves also carry baggage, such as karma, life lessons and traumas. So they (unconsciously) view and judge from their own perspective. And projecting that onto you and the situation.  

Merge of Energy during Family Constellation

Each representative also has his or her own energy field. So do you. All these energy fields resonate with each other, and together they form a new energy field. This energy field is, of course, totally different from the collective energy field of your family. 

Through the family constellation, these energies do enter your energy system. As do the projections of the representatives. Because of this, you have a merging of energy. Whereas healing is actually about separation of energy. Removing energy that is not yours from your system, removing projections and roles that stick to you, etc. In order to become more in your own energy and thus in your own power.   

During the healing program Family During the Family healing program, this is what we do: separate energies and dissolve what doesn't fit your life lessons in this life. This program consists of 4 healings: Dissolving Family Karma, You within Your Family System, Energy in the Family Line (7 Generations), and a Individual Live Session Specifically Focused on Your Family 

What is a Family System?

Although you are an individual, you are also part of family systems. Families in this life, such as the family you were born into and any in-laws. But also families from other lives. 

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"Be yourself, then it doesn't take energy to pretend to be different. People around you who don't accept you for who you are are not worth putting energy into.

Tricky story when the persons are your parents. Less so when it's family. And even less so when it's the society you surround yourself with.

The longest stretch of your life, you live under your own responsibility. Take that responsibility when your environment prevents you from being yourself."

Spiritual Books

Each of these books provides insight about the energetic relationships you have with your family:

  1. Je zijn: how energy works, including within the family
  2. Je wil: how (family) systems work and how metaphysical laws and forces operate on them
  3. Je last: the influence of karma on your life, including family karma
Your core, from your core you have access to everything you need: come into your power | Spiritual book | Astrid van Pluuren and Jarno Tiethoff

Book Je zijn

This book:

  • provides insight into all layers of your energy system, what influences it and how you can influence it. Both energetically and practically. 
  • contains exercises to get rid of energy that is not yours and to shield your energy field. 
  • is full of tips on how to raise your energy system to a higher frequency.

This book is currently being translated into English and Spanish. The expected release date is fall 2023. 

Je wil | Get what you want with the help of metaphysical laws and forces. Astrid van Pluuren and Jarno Tiethoff.

Book Je wil

This book: 

  • provides insight into the hierarchy and operation of 42 metaphysical laws and forces.
  • contains exercises so that you learn to consciously employ higher laws and thus change the energetic setting.
  • helps you balance your feminine and masculine power so that you can maximize your life force. 

This book is currently being translated into English and Spanish. The expected release date is fall 2023 (Spanish) and spring 2024 (English). 

Je last | From a hard lesson to a driving force: transform your karma.

Book Je last

This book:

  • provides insight into karma, its origins and how it is expressed

  • is full of examples of karma situations and elaborations to make it concrete

  • contains healing exercises with which you can reduce your karma and (partially) heal the resulting load

The vivid examples give you an insight into what a healing is and what emerges during healing.

This book has just been launched in Dutch. We will start translating it at the end of the year. Reserve your copy. Get in touch

Online Session, including Healing: Specifically Focused on Family (issues)

Forces of Resistance | Healing

If you have a belief in yourself that you don't want something or are resisting something, it comes right into your life. Often it becomes a resistance which creates blockages.

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What You Want | Workshop with Healing

During this workshop we will guide you to get to the essence of what you want and what it takes to achieve it. We will work energetically as well as analytically and practically with essential intentions, recalibrating your life to that and plotting your energetic campaign.

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"It is not a mystery, it is the miracle called life through which magical moments occur."