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Ik ben anders dan mijn familie
Everyone is unique and yet everyone also has certain family traits. Only, it may be that your unique characteristics or your view of the world is so different from the rest of the family that you feel you are completely different compared to your family and do not fit in or belong.
Why Was I Born into this Family?
When you feel that you are different than the rest of the family, you wonder what you are doing around these people. It is good to realize that your parents, brothers and sisters are related to you for a reason.
Your higher consciousness selects the family that best fits your life plan, the karma you want to resolve and the life lessons you want to learn. After all, your family is one of the most formative environments in your life.
The Relationship with My Family Changed over the Past Years, What Causes That?
In recent years, many existing relationships have changed. Either you are more in tune with each other, or you no longer understand each other at all. This is due to the layers of consciousness that have arisen under the influence of the transition of energy. On Earth, people live with different levels of consciousness.
Layers of consciousness help you better understand the other person's level of consciousness and make it easier to meet like-minded people. People who are in the same layer of consciousness on a particular area; the area where you both want to learn a life lesson.
But it also becomes clearer if you don't have the same level of consciousness. Because of this, existing relationships change. For example, partners who grow apart, parents and children who have a completely different view of the world, or that you feel you no longer fit in with the family.
I Don't Feel Part of My Family (anymore), How to Move On?
When you don't belong, your automatic reaction is to adapt to fit in. To get the recognition and love you crave; to be seen. Realize, however, that by doing so you are selling yourself short, which eventually takes its toll. And that the chance of being seen for who you really are, is almost nil. More about this in the blog Being Completely Yourself and Why It Costs Energy When You Don't
Fortunately, there are plenty of other things you can do that will actually help you empower yourself.
Accept Who You Are and Accept How Your Family Is
Acceptance is the first step toward change. The moment you actually accept that there are differences between you and your family, you can start processing the impact this has on your life.
You can feel incredibly sad and lonely when the relationship with your family is not pleasant (any longer). Or when the mutual differences are too big, causing you to stop seeing each other (temporarily). In this case you are in an invisible grieving process. The meditation healing Self-love supports you in this process.
Reduce the Impact of Your Family on Your Life
Besides growing up within the family:
- there are many karmic connections within the family
- energy is passed from generation to generation through family lines
- there are roles and patterns within a family
Because of this, family relationships remain for life, even if you end the physical relationship. The energetic connections, mutual energies, and projections continue to exist, exerting an impact on you. Just until you tackle it.
This is what we do during the healing program Family. This program consists of 4 healings: Dissolving Family Karma, You within Your Family System, Energy in the Family Line (7 Generations), and a Individual Live Session Specifically Focused on Your Family.
