The Impact of Living Up to the Ideal Picture
We grow up in a world where the perfect picture is everywhere around us. On social media, in our parents' expectations, in our careers, relationships, and even spirituality. There seems to be an invisible bar that you have to meet as a person—if you want to be seen, recognized, or appreciated.
And if you don't meet those expectations? Then doubt sets in. Restlessness. The feeling that you're falling short. That you're not good enough, just as you are.
Paragons and Masks
To fit in, we adapt. We put on masks, subtle or radical. We become a version of ourselves that we hope will be accepted. That we will finally be seen, appreciated, recognized.
But what you show is not who you really are. And what you suppress becomes a source of inner tension. You become increasingly distant from your core, from your truth, from your strength.
Projections of the Ideal Picture
The outside world constantly projects images onto us:
- This is what success should look like.
- This is what love looks like.
- This is how you should behave as a woman, man, parent, professional, spiritual person...
Slowly but surely, you start living according to these projections. You make choices based on expectations. No longer from your heart, your truth, your destiny.
Who Am I Truly?
One day you ask yourself: Who am I without all these roles and masks? The only way to break free from the pressure of the perfect image is to turn inward. To return to your essence. That takes courage. To be radically honest with yourself. To dare to feel. To no longer live for the outside world, but to live from your inner world.

Spiritual Leadership means that you determine your own path.
- It means recognizing and utilizing your gifts.
- It means setting and protecting your boundaries.
- That you make choices that resonate with your soul, not with the applause of the masses.
From there, you draw on what truly suits you. Connection. Love. Fulfillment. No role, no mask—just a life lived authentically.
Do you dare to walk your own path?
The world doesn't need another perfect picture. The world needs you — real, raw, pure, and powerful.
Do you want to get rid of the projections stored in your energy field? Do you want to break free from the roles you play and the associated behaviors stored in your system? Do you want to live from your own essence and live powerfully? Join the Personal and Spiritual Leadership training. This is a unique and transformative journey in which you not only gain knowledge and skills, but also undergo profound healing. You will come closer to your own core and intuition. You will learn to lead from your authenticity, so that you can live confidently and from your heart—both personally and professionally.