Energetic Self-Management & Leadership

Start date: Friday, November 20, 2026 | 27 half-days | Location: Zoom

Is the way you live actually the way that suits you best? And iIs the way you move through life effortless? Or are you constantly going against the current of your own life?

Are you actually using your talents and potential? Or do you know deep down that there is more in you than is currently coming out?

And how much control do you really have over your life? Do you live from your own authenticity and inner strength, or do you find yourself being guided unnoticed by old patterns, expectations, or external influences?

During the Energetic Self-Direction & Leadership development trajectory, you free your energy from what unconsciously holds you back. This ensures that your energy becomes fully available once again for the life you came here to live, allowing you to fully utilize your talents, creative power, and potential.

Is the way you live actually the way that suits you best? And iIs the way you move through life effortless? Or are you constantly going against the current of your own life?

Are you actually using your talents and potential? Or do you know deep down that there is more in you than is currently coming out?

What would your life look like if you were truly in control?

Erica: “I notice that many limiting beliefs, inner saboteurs, and junk have been removed from my system. I feel much freer and live lighter. I am now in control and creating my own world, from authenticity and responsibility.” Read more

You have unique talents, qualities, and a soul's direction. But how much space do these get within the way you have structured your life?

Sometimes you reach a point where you realize your life no longer fits you perfectly. This could be because you made choices based on circumstances, responsibilities, or expectations. Or because you've outgrown your current life.

From the outside, everything might seem fine, but inside, it's eating away at me.

You know there is more inside of you than what is coming out right now, but how do you bring out your own potential and power? And how do you become fully visible to others when you do not even have a view of who you truly are in essence?

Authenticity: living from who you truly are

Beliefs, expectations, roles, patterns, and energy of others. Once learned, picked up, or adopted, still active in your energy system.

During the Energetic Self-Management & Leadership program, we help you energetically clear away layers so that you increasingly step into your own energy, power, and life.

You learn to better recognize who you truly are, what really suits you, and how to take control of your own life. Both energetically and practically.

From continuous influence and adaptation to living more freely from who you are.

Autonomy: taking your own position

Autonomy doesn't mean you don't need anyone or that you shut yourself off from others. It means being self-reliant—being able to stay true to yourself without getting swept up in what's happening around you.

You learn to recognize what influences you, where you give away or take on energy, and where you adapt yourself or make yourself smaller.

You feel your boundaries more clearly and are better able to communicate them. This creates more space and freedom to make your own choices and stand by them.

Leadership: consciously self-directing

Knowing who you are is one thing. Actually living according to that knowledge is something else entirely. You learn to use your energy and strength more consciously, to change the energetic landscape of your life, and to take responsibility for the direction in which you’re heading.

Not only when circumstances cooperate, but precisely also when the outside world seems to push you in another direction.

That is energetic self-management and leadership: not waiting to see where life takes you or what comes your way, but increasingly leading with awareness and steering what unfolds in your life yourself.

Why join now?

Due to major astrological shifts, we are living in a time of great change. Existing structures are disappearing, familiar certainties offer less stability, and the way we think, communicate, collaborate, and live together is also evolving rapidly.

That’s why it’s becoming more important to know who you are, what truly suits you, and what guides your decisions. This way, you can consciously claim your place within the bigger picture, drawing on your uniqueness and qualities.

The current energy is making it increasingly clear that it is no longer sustainable to seek security and validation outside of yourself. It is becoming increasingly important to take responsibility for how you shape your life and to contribute in a way that truly suits you.

Energetic self-regulation helps you actually make that shift: becoming increasingly aware of what belongs to you, learning to direct your own energy, and steering your life with greater authenticity, autonomy, and inner strength.

What changes when you start leading more from within yourself?

In your life

No longer moving along with or being swallowed up by someone else's energy, choices and emotions, but discovering who you are and what you want, learning to stay true to yourself, make your own choices and recognize and indicate boundaries.

Resolving things within yourself so that you grow personally; in your self-confidence and self-acceptance, and you can transform your life into enjoyable living the way you want.

In your work

You bring yourself to work. When your energy changes, it affects your way of working, collaborating, managing, and doing business.

You learn to better perceive, understand, and transform energy in situations. As a result, you are able to stay more grounded while connected with colleagues, customers, or clients.

Whether you are in a leadership role, working with people, or looking for direction in your own work, this trajectory helps you take control yourself in a natural and authentic way.

Guidance

You can gain more and more insight into yourself, recognize patterns, and even have a very clear picture of what you want to change, but that doesn’t mean the energetic guidance of yourself and your life has changed.

Insight alone is not enough. That is why we consciously combine awareness, energetic transformation, and practical application in your daily life.

During the journey, you will be guided by Astrid van Pluuren and Jarno Tiethoff, founders of Lead a normal life and authors of the books You are, You want, You're burdened, and You're strong.

Astrid In her work, she brings together energetic awareness, astrological interpretation, and practical integration. She has a unique ability to translate the intangible into concrete and practical tools for everyday life.

Jarno focuses on soul liberation and energetic development. In his healing sessions, he works on deeper layers of the energy system, where patterns, karmic connections, and tensions are stored.

Structure of the pathway

First: getting ever closer to your own core

To be able to direct yourself, you must distinguish what truly belongs to you and remove what does not belong to you. Therefore, the trajectory begins with your authenticity and the influences upon it. You increasingly strip away what hinders you from living from your own core.

Next: focus your strength purposefully

Once you’re more in tune with your own energy, you can also begin to direct it in a focused way. You’ll learn not only to recognize what suits you, but also how to steer things in that direction—both energetically and practically.

Van knowing yourself to lead yourself.

The Energetic Self-Management and Leadership trajectory consists of knowledge sessions, healings, and individual guidance.

Breaking free from what unconsciously influences and drives you

Authenticity
Welcoming, respecting and accepting your true self. Learning to recognize what is yours and what is not.
Authenticity Within Your Family
Getting rid of family karma, roles and patterns within the family, and energy in the family line that is not appropriate for you and your life lessons.
Chakras, optimize your operating system
Chakras are nodes through which energy flows. It is the connection that makes all your bodies work as one; with your chakras you direct your life. From unconscious to conscious directing.
Pure Intuition, Improve Your Internal Senses and Your Expression
Improve inner seeing and hearing, plus optimize your speech. Needed to be heard; to communicate your thoughts, ideas and opinions. In addition, we zoom in on the power of words.
Individual guidance
Meditation Healings (Unlimited Access)

Learning to steer from your own energy

What Do I Want and How Do I Realize It
By working on the energetic setting and intentions, things become possible that were previously impossible. We guide you to get to the essence of what you want and what is needed to achieve it.
The Impact of Thoughts, Attitude, and Behavior
What happens to you and what you achieve is largely brought upon yourself. We analyze (through astrology, among other things) the common thread of your life, its underlying (energetic) causes, and how you can transform this.
What Are My Strengths and How Do I Use Them?
Forces within you, forces that exert pressure on you, and forces that pass through you. Discover the difference, learn how to direct these forces, and make the best use of them.

Christine Bijvanck: “I now better understand how things work within myself and what I need to do. Space has been created, and I can now sense my boundaries better.” Read more

Marlene Stiekema: “My mission to get people moving physically, mentally, and emotionally is succeeding 100x better now. I am much stronger in my own energy. I want that for my team as well.” Read more

Sijbe: “I was overthinking a lot and had less faith in a positive outcome. Through this process, I've gained confirmation and direction for myself. That gives a lot of confidence and peace.” Read more

Practical Information

Data

Start date: Friday, November 20, 2026: view all the data from the group sessions.

Energetic Self-Management and Leadership: Investing in Yourself

Unnecessary ballast and noise from your life.

More authenticity, autonomy and leadership.

Taking natural command of your life and work.

Investment: €3,700, it is possible to pay in 24 installments.

Training, vitality, or development budget

It is possible to follow the program with your training, vitality, or development budget from your employer. Read more

Frequently Asked Questions

Energetic self-management

Energetic self-direction and leadership means living and making choices from inner strength, consciousness, and authenticity. Not reacting out of fear or external pressure, but acting from your own intuition and wisdom.

How does this journey help me take the next step in my life or career?

You are shaped by your upbringing, culture, society, any religion, etc. But also, for example, by thought influence from commercial entities (think of advertisements) and propaganda from governments (including through education).

These are all energy systems with their own consciousness and center of gravity, which influences your energy system; who you are. As a result, you have often drifted away from your true self. Who you essentially are. Your energy system is so full of the thoughts, opinions, and beliefs of others. In short; what others want from you or think you should do. This makes it difficult to purely filter out what your own will and path is. But also to be fully yourself and to naturally be in the lead from your own power.

This journey is a combination of knowledge and insights, healings, and guidance.

With healings you can free yourself from obstructing (behavioral) patterns, beliefs and thoughts. It creates certain realizations in yourself, allowing you to look at situations from a different perspective and to see them differently. With this you clear the way for change. Then you have to actually do it. We are happy to help you with that.

Is the journey down to earth or spiritual?

The journey is both energetic and practical.

With healings you can free yourself from obstructing (behavioral) patterns, beliefs, and thoughts. It creates certain realizations in yourself, allowing you to look at situations from a different perspective and to see them differently. With this you clear the way for change.

The next step is to actually implement the change. We guide you in this. Both personally and professionally.

Do I need to have experience with energy work?

No, we build it up step by step, and the techniques are also new to people who have done energy work before. During the process, you will learn everything you need to know, and there is personal guidance and space for your own process and growth path.

Do I often absorb energy from others and lose myself in the process, does this coaching program help with that?

Yes, if you are willing to look at that on a deeper level. Many people who follow this path realize that they are taking on energy, emotions, expectations, or responsibilities from others.

During the program, you will work on your energy management and how to take control of it yourself. Additionally, you will learn to recognize what is yours and what isn't, where you lose yourself, and how to offer stronger resistance. By being more consciously present in your own energy and learning to feel and express your boundaries.

How long does this route take?

The Energetic Self-Direction and Leadership program includes 27 group sessions of 2 to 2.5 hours each. These are on the fixed dates.

Individual sessions last on average 1.5 to 2 hours. We schedule these separately with you.

Additionally, you will follow a number of on-demand sessions of approximately 1 hour. You can schedule these yourself within the relevant period of the program.

The self-study during part 1 is on average 0.5 to 1 hour per week, and during part 2, it is on average 1 to 2 hours per week.

I find two years quite long, can I also follow part of the program?

The process has a turnaround time of 2 years, but with intervals. Because you also need to process the information and energy released during the healings. And you need time to actually apply what you learn in your daily life and work.

When you find 2 years too long, you can also start with the Healing program Who am I. This is the first part of the journey and has a lead time of 10 weeks.