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How much space do you give yourself?

How much space you allow yourself becomes visible in moments when you want something different than what your environment expects of you. Or when you want something for yourself instead of for what you are a part of.

Because you can lead, have a strong opinion, and be socially successful, while still living within invisible boundaries in other areas.

For example, that you take up all the space when your expertise is asked for, but much less when it comes to what you desire. Or that you can excellently represent the interests of an organization or team, but find it harder to want something for yourself.

Then you reach a deeper layer of freedom, namely inner freedom.

You never grow bigger than the space you give yourself. Male silhouette with words behind him that keep him small, such as wanting to prove oneself, being seen, gaining recognition, being always on, etc. And in front of him a large open landscape.

You are often your own biggest limitation

But how much freedom do you truly experience when your choices are limited by your need to be useful, to belong, to disappoint no one, to be liked, or to be seen?

The biggest limitation is often not that it is impossible, but because you do not consider it possible.

“It's not possible, because I have responsibilities and obligations that I need to fulfill. I have a family, I need to pay my fixed expenses, I have a certain lifestyle I want to maintain, etc.” 

Invisible boundaries you impose on yourself

The greatest straitjacket is continuing to live a life that gives you no inner freedom. Male silhouette with a 'straitjacket' on the left featuring depicted words such as have-tos, expectations, projections, what others think, conforming, not disappointing, proving myself, etc. And on the right, an open landscape that literally radiates freedom.

Of course those responsibilities are real. But often the situation itself is not the limitation, but the belief that there are no other possibilities. 

By freeing yourself from your own beliefs and thought patterns, you will begin to see space again where you no longer saw it before.

How much of your life is determined by invisible boundaries that you have come to believe in? Do you truly give yourself permission to take up your space? Even when that means letting go of expectations, pushing boundaries, or making choices that your immediate environment does not understand?

That is what we are working on during the Energetic Self-Guidance & Leadership Trajectory. Stripping it back layer by layer to your own core, energy, and strength. No longer moving along with or being swallowed up by other people's energy, choices, and emotions, but discovering who you are and what you want, learning to stay true to yourself, making your own choices, and recognizing and setting boundaries. 

The greatest straitjacket is continuing to live a life that gives you no inner freedom. Male silhouette with a 'straitjacket' on the left featuring depicted words such as have-tos, expectations, projections, what others think, conforming, not disappointing, proving myself, etc. And on the right, an open landscape that literally radiates freedom.

We are organizing another healing holiday This year, you (and your friend or partner) can still join, there are 4 spots left.

From Monday, October 19, through Friday, October 23, 2026, enjoy a wonderful extension of your summer surrounded by nature, at energy spots, magical places, and sacred sites in Linya, Catalonia.

Treat yourself to a vacation where you can truly unwind, relax, and find yourself.

Healing holiday Unwind. Heal. Come home to yourself. Monday October 19 - Friday October 23, 2026. Healing & energy work Deep relaxation Nature & peace Connection & growth Time for you A holiday that touches you, from the inside out. Give yourself this reset

Books: Discover the layers that shape your life

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Gain insight into how your energy system works, which laws and forces help shape your life, why certain (karmic) patterns keep recurring, and how you can use your power in a focused and conscious way to take control of your own life. 

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The books are bestsellers in the Netherlands and Belgium. 

Healing: Free Yourself on a Deeper Level

With a healing you can free yourself from obstructive (behavioral) patterns, beliefs, and thoughts. It creates certain realizations in yourself, allowing you to look at situations with a different perspective and to see them differently. With this you clear the way for change. 

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Astrology: Understanding the Energies Throughout Your Life

The positions of the planets influence the energy on Earth and thus also how events unfold. In the world and in your life. 

We use astrology as a tool to help you gain insight into your unique programming and life plan.

Astrology shows what is activated, but awareness and inner leadership determine how you deal with it. 

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