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Free yourself from patterns and influences from the family system with healing on your system

Although you are an individual, you are also part of family systems. Every system of which you are a part, participate in, or are connected to, influences you. Such as the family system and kinship system.

But not all beliefs, expectations, patterns, and roles within the system truly align with who you really are. The healing "You Within Your Family System" helps you break free from the system's influence on you.

So that there is more space for who you truly are, separate from the roles, expectations, and direction of the system.

How Does a Family System Affect You?

Your family is one of the most formative environments in your life. You grow up within the family, are raised by the family, and your family influences the worldview and self-image you develop.

Within a family system, a collective consciousness emerges. A way of looking at the world. With beliefs, for example, about what is normal, what is and isn't appropriate, and what success looks like.

You grow up in it. It becomes so natural that you often don't even realize that your frame of reference and behavior come from the system.

Break free from unconscious family conditioning that influences your choices, opportunities, and vision for the future.

In every family, a division also arises. One person is the responsible one. Another is the mediator. Yet another is the one who arranges everything. And then there's the one who adapts. Or precisely, the one who causes a stir.

Such a place often arises early on. The system has formed like this. And even though you have grown personally, The family system unconsciously keeps drawing you back into old patterns, expectations, and roles.

This allows you to function for years from a position that was once created but no longer aligns with who you are. Strengthen your own energy system and claim the place that suits you.

Through healing within your family system, we work on the influence that beliefs, expectations, roles, behaviors, and your place within the family have on you. This creates more space for your own choices, direction, and potential.

Release the family's ballast from your system

Not all energies, beliefs, expectations, patterns, and roles within your family fit with your life lessons and life goals.

Through this healing, we disconnect what doesn't belong to you, creating more space for you as an individual within the system. This will allow you to experience fewer hindering and limiting mechanisms in your own life.

It's a complete healing that you:

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whenever it's convenient for you

as often as necessary

in the place you like best

Nienke Gottebos: “I've always had trouble with relationships. The family healings helped me break through them. I was carrying the fear and sadness of my great-grandmother and had to let that go to move forward myself.” Read more

"Through the family healings, the interaction within our family has changed. The attitude towards me has become softer, kinder, and more respectful."

"A lot happened during the healing. It was intense to notice how much I had to let go of, and therefore, how much influence it unknowingly had on me."

Family constellations differences

During family constellations, under guidance, it becomes insightful to see what roles, patterns, and beliefs exist within your family, and what impact this has on your current life.

This can give you a feeling of relief or lightness. However, as long as the energy that activates it remains present, new situations will continue to arise. Insight and relief are different from actually letting go of it and resolving it. That is what this healing works on. Releasing your system from the baggage you carry.

The energetic role of representatives during a family constellation

In constellations, work is often done with representatives who have their own background, energy field, and baggage, such as karma, life lessons, and traumas. From their own perspective, they project this onto you and your family.

Additionally, during the setup, the representatives form a new energy field with you. This is a completely different energy than that of your family, but it does blend with it.

In healing, it's precisely about separating energies. Not about situations you are aware of, but about the energies and mechanisms that cause situations.

Start the healing to remove what doesn't belong to you from your energy system

Guidance by Jarno

This healing was developed by Jarno Tiethoff, who has been working for years with healings focused on soul liberation and energetic development.

His healings bring about changes at deeper levels of the energy system and help people experience greater peace, clarity, and direction.

More about Jarno Tiethoff

FAQ's Healing

What Is a Healing?

Many people associate healing with relaxation. But true healing works on the deeper layers of energy where karma, patterns, and beliefs are stored.

Healing is a process of reprogramming that can dissolve blockages and transform life lessons. As these layers and patterns change, so does what you experience in your life.

Here are a few examples of what you can work on through a healing session:

Resolving Blockages and Traumas
Update Your Guides and Life Paths
To release a whole lot of energy—such as guilt, shame, fear, anger, or sadness—all at once.
Neutralizing thought pictures and projections
Getting your different bodies to work together again

How Often a Healing?

The online healings are valid indefinitely. This means you can repeat them regularly.

The advantage of doing a healing on a regular basis is that you become more and more yourself, making you mentally stronger and empowered. As a result, your vibrational frequency keeps rising.

What Do You Experience During a Healing Session?

What you feel during a healing is person-dependent and varies from one healing to another. Some people get very tired, while others feel hot or cold. If it is a very intense healing (where many old, unnecessary wounds are healed) then you may have muscle aches or feel sluggish for a few days. This is not strange, when you undergo a physical surgery, you also need recovery time. The same applies to an energetic surgery (healing).

By What Do You Recognize the Quality of a Healing?

It is important to realize that during a healing you are working with energy and that the healer is only the pass-through of the connection that is made. It is absolutely not done for the healer to process their own energy or life processes through it.

You can compare a healing to surgery, but energetically. If you undergo surgery for your physical body, you want it done in a clean, safe space with tools designed for that purpose and surgeons who know what they are doing. The same is true for a healing. Again, it is important to do it in a protected space (healing space), with the right tooling (healing techniques), and the expertise needed to do it (healing spirits and angels).

To ensure that the energy is that of a healingspirit, and not other intelligent beings posing as healingspirit, it is important to work with a healing space and with the Angels of Higher Laws .

It is a safe space around you. Compare it to absolute privacy. It is an enclosed space where nothing can come through so that you can change your own inner processes without disturbing other people's processes. Everyone has their own life lessons and you don't want anyone else to unintentionally enter your frequency of healing.

Whether or not a healer can connect with healing spirits is determined by the level of consciousness of the healer and to what extent the healer has optimized his or her own energy system. This is a process of years.

The healings of Jarno are aimed at soul liberation. What changes at the soul level, affects all layers of the energy system.

As energy becomes purer and more free-flowing, the vibrational frequency of the energy system increases. This leads to greater clarity, strength, and connection with one’s own essence.

Jarno uses healing techniques that support the journey toward wholeness:

focused on the root causes of patterns
insight and awareness as part of the healing process
not just temporary relief, but real change

A Remote Healing, Is it Possible and How Does it Work?

During a healing you work with energy, which has a vibrational frequency. And based on frequencies you can connect. So the effect of the healing is the same whether you are physically present or not.

Compare it to the telephone, you are not near each other, through the connection of energy within the network you can hear each other. The same goes for online encounters, like Zoom. The connection of energy allows you to see and hear each other, regardless of the physical distance between the participants. In a healing, this works the same. The effect of the healing is the same whether you are physically present or not.

When you are physically near each other, you make an energetic connection through the chakra system. The connection through chakras is necessary to be able to sense each other. Generally this happens unconsciously because people do not know it exists. We often measure relationships and friendships by how connected we feel to each other. In digital meeting, that connection is often missing. Because of the physical distance, you don't automatically make an energetic connection and miss that part of the communication. However, it is possible to connect with someone at a distance. During our sessions we ensure that a connection is made even at a distance.

Watching a Healing Afterwards, Does it Have the Same Effect?

It makes no difference to the effect of our healings whether you participate in them at the time they take place or whether you watch them afterwards. The online sessions including healing contain activations. Once you watch these, it is activated in your system and that part in yourself will be healed.

You have multiple bodies and each body is in a different dimension (reality), such as physical dimension here on Earth, astral dimension, etc. These dimensions and therefore bodies are timeless. Since you do not work on your physical body with a healing, but on your other bodies, this is also timeless. This means you can look at this physically at another time.