Break family patterns

Free yourself from patterns and influences from the family system with healing on your system

Free yourself from patterns and influences from the family system with healing on your system

Although you are an individual, you are also part of family systems. Every system of which you are a part, participate in, or are connected to, influences you. Such as the family system and kinship system. 

But not all beliefs, expectations, patterns, and roles within the system truly align with who you really are. The healing "You Within Your Family System" helps you break free from the system's influence on you.

So that there is more space for who you truly are, separate from the roles, expectations, and direction of the system.

Although you are an individual, you are also part of family systems. Every system of which you are a part, participate in, or are connected to, influences you. Such as the family system and kinship system. 

But not all beliefs, expectations, patterns, and roles within the system truly align with who you really are. The healing "You Within Your Family System" helps you break free from the system's influence on you.

So that there is more space for who you truly are, separate from the roles, expectations, and direction of the system.

Are you living your own life? Or the patterns of your family system?

How Does a Family System Affect You?

Your family is one of the most formative environments in your life. You grow up within the family, are raised by the family, and your family influences the worldview and self-image you develop.

Within a family system, a collective consciousness emerges. A way of looking at the world. With beliefs, for example, about what is normal, what is and isn't appropriate, and what success looks like. 

You grow up in it. It becomes so natural that you often don't even realize that your frame of reference and behavior come from the system. 

Break free from unconscious family conditioning that influences your choices, opportunities, and vision for the future.

Are you living your life or your family's reality? The image shows a woman being influenced by family members with beliefs, roles, and patterns stemming from the family system. Leadanormallfie.com
Are you yourself or your role within the family system? The image shows a woman taking on different roles in family situations, such as the caretaker, the mediator, the one who has to perform. Leadanormallife.com

In every family, a division also arises. One person is the responsible one. Another is the mediator. Yet another is the one who arranges everything. And then there's the one who adapts. Or precisely, the one who causes a stir. 

Such a place often arises early on. The system has formed like this. And even though you have grown personally, The family system unconsciously keeps drawing you back into old patterns, expectations, and roles. 

This allows you to function for years from a position that was once created but no longer aligns with who you are. Strengthen your own energy system and claim the place that suits you.

Through healing within your family system, we work on the influence that beliefs, expectations, roles, behaviors, and your place within the family have on you. This creates more space for your own choices, direction, and potential.

Release the family's ballast from your system

Not all energies, beliefs, expectations, patterns, and roles within your family fit with your life lessons and life goals. 

Through this healing, we disconnect what doesn't belong to you, creating more space for you as an individual within the system. This will allow you to experience fewer hindering and limiting mechanisms in your own life. 

It's a complete healing that you:

can follow anonymously

whenever it's convenient for you

as often as necessary

in the place you like best

Nienke Gottebos: “I've always had trouble with relationships. The family healings helped me break through them. I was carrying the fear and sadness of my great-grandmother and had to let that go to move forward myself.” Read more

Family constellations differences

During family constellations, under guidance, it becomes insightful to see what roles, patterns, and beliefs exist within your family, and what impact this has on your current life.

This can give you a feeling of relief or lightness. However, as long as the energy that activates it remains present, new situations will continue to arise. Insight and relief are different from actually letting go of it and resolving it. That is what this healing works on. Releasing your system from the baggage you carry. 

Guidance by Jarno

This healing was developed by Jarno Tiethoff, who has been working for years with healings focused on soul liberation and energetic development. 

His healings bring about changes at deeper levels of the energy system and help people experience greater peace, clarity, and direction.

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